It’s really important to meet other carers so that you realise you’re not alone; to discover what is available for carers in your area; to have more conversation and discussion that someone with dementia or Alzheimers is able to provide.
But…. when you’re stuck in a house with someone you care for and have no friends or siblings nearby or able/willing to give you a break it’s really hard to get out to meet people.
My mum’s GP and social workers suggested I belong to carer groups to meet other carers. I only had 3 hours of Take a Break vouchers a week and the care company were challenged finding a carer to cover even two of those hours. If you’re in the same situation here are some possible remedies – they’re far from ideal but..
- interact with friends on the phone or by Skype
- belong to forums for carers/caregivers
- depending on your profession try to get online teaching gigs
- again depending on your profession, build an online business where you can coach/mentor people (and make money at the same time)
- participate in Google Hangouts on topics of interest to you
In the UK anyone who provides or intends to provide a substantial amount of care on a regular basis has a legal right to a carer’s assessment. Once a carer has requested a carer’s assessment, the local council has a duty to carry one out.